āNone of us were born having owned. driven, worked for or sacrificed for a car, so that doesn't make sense as a complaint. Enthusiasm at an age when one does not have the means - and experience with the culture is what combines to create the motivation to drive/purchase/build that first car.ā So by your definition the 4 year old neighbor boy who is āenthusiasticā about cars and likes to ride a battery operated corvette up and down the driveway is part of the ācar cultureā or ācommunityā? Nope. You can be enthusiastic about being a Chef, but until you sweat hours over a stove, burnt your finger on a hot pan, created your own recipe or added your own twist to an old recipe ...your not part of the culinary culture or community, Seems most are bending backwards to be kind to a adolescent boy...to encourage him with his interest. Thatās fine, until he starts confusing reality. Despite lacking ANY semblance of experience do I recall him seeking guidance or opinion. Instead he authoritatively shares his opinions and perceptions gathered from in front of his laptop. If it continues, if heās not corrected, I see REAL disappointment...and a comfort animal in his future.
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